We have just put our toddler down for a nap, and, as usual, he is not too happy about it. Even as I write this I hear crying and screaming, and I hate that he is unhappy. But, he’s a little boy, and we know from experience that naptime is important. Really, it is important for all of us to rest and have downtime, although that may look different for all of us. Anyway, naptime in our house is usually not the best part of parenting.
Ah, parenting. The toughest, messiest, scariest, happiest, loveliest, and most joyful thing most of us will do. Parenting encompasses all human emotions on the spectrum. One minute you could be having a great time with your child, and the next they are trying every ounce of patience you have. Children truly are great teachers in this respect, as they seem to have ways to bring out the traits and habits that you could improve.
For all of the ups and downs of parenting, there are some pretty beautiful moments that make it all worth it. Luckily for me, I got to have one of those moments last week.
As I was getting ready to leave to teach a class, I kissed my son and told him and good bye and that I loved him. Without asking for a response, he responded by saying that he loved me too! I was overwhelmed and started crying, but it was a happy cry. I said it again and so did he. Wow! Who knew that “love you” would be some of his first words?! It truly made my day, and in my opinion speaks to how much we say we love each other in our family. It was definitely a small moment to cherish.
If you are a parent, how about you? What beautiful parenting moments have you had? When you are having a tough day, hopefully remembering these can make the day just a little lighter.